What should I do?

I had this question this morning. I was in a situation where I didn't feel comfortable, and it made me think "what should I do?" I know this sounds dumb, but it was situation I have never been in my life. One of those you hear and think, "that will never happen to me". It did. I was wrong. So, how do you make a decision of what to do when you are uncertain? These are my rules of thumb.

1. Do you feel comfortable? Imagine yourself in the situation and if you feel good about it, and feel like it is right then follow your gut feeling. 

2. Think what is your motive in making my decision. Think of what you want out of the situation and then find the solution that matches what you want the most. 

3. And think of the consequences in the future, what will my decision lead to in the future? Sometimes what we want momentarily comes first rather than the longer consequences. The consequences that matter the most are the "eternal" or ones that will affect your future. 

These are my thoughts for today. 

Oh, also, I forgot something back home so I had to return back to apartment after arriving to Animal Kingdom. I was alone with the bus driver, but we had a good conversation. After he thanked me for talking to him and said that most people are "stuck up" and don't like to have conversations with people they don't know. He told me he would like to talk to me again, and enjoyed our conversation a lot. It was nice to be noticed when I was just being kind. My motto: Kindness matters. People notice, and even though some people may not comment on it. Kindness and a smile is the best thing you could offer to someone!

Here are some pictures of Disneyworld I have taken:




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