Love comes when it's least expected.

That is what I have discovered in my life. I feel like when we seek love, it will come but it will be difficult. Love will come in unexpected way and time. I talked to two friends today and they were both not looking to date at all this semester. They fell for a guy. They both told me the same thing, " I am surprised because I didn't plan for it to happen". I have talked to numerous engaged and married couples who have said the same thing.

So, you want love? Don't expect it. Well, maybe it dosen't work that easily. I was thinking about this concept that people call love today. I have been in love before. I look forward to being in love once again. I am tired of always thinking about me, myself and I. I want to share my love with another person. The thing is love will come in a unexpected way and I am ready to embrace that. I am extremely busy these days so I am not looking for a handsome fella' to come my way soon. I don't expect for my eternal honey bunny to just walk int the door anytime soon. Or what if I already know my husband already and we are just waiting for that moment where we realize we like each other? So many possibilities that I just can't contain my excitement!

I feel good about my dating situation even though I don't have one. I am hopeful and NOT desperate. I am open to love and understand that it really can happen anytime. I have moved on from my past relationships and have learned from the strengths and weaknesses from each relationship. I am able to make friends, work hard, have purpose in my life, and am ready to share my purpose in life with others. Like I said, it will come when it is least expected.


So, until the least expected happens, I will be busy with my homework and work. Please don't by shy future husband though. If you see me in the hallway, don't be afraid to just walk up and say hi. If you know we are going to get married the first moment we meet (which i doubt), please don't tell me. I might be freaked out. Other than that, I am not scary. I won't turn you down.

Oh love. Why do numerous songs, books, individuals, scientists all study you all day long? So many people worry about finding, keeping, loosing and fixing love. Love really does make the world go round. Just watch a couple in love and you find this to be true.

Well to you single individuals looking for love, remember there are so many things that we can and can't control. Focus on what you can control. And realize, that love will come in a unexpected time and just throw you off guard.


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  1. KylieOctober 3, 2012 at 2:02 PM

    I strongly believe that love comes when you least expect it! So many of my friends that are married didn't expect to be with the guy they are with today. As long as we focus on ourselves and not on finding "the one," we will date and marry the guy when the timing is right :)

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