Making Critical Decisions

I don't like making decisions. It scares me. What if I make the wrong decision? That is my worst fear. I don't want to make the wrong decision and then regret it the rest of my life. I have learned that each decision you make will have a consequence. We can't chose the consequence, but we can always choose the original decision. So if you want to have a good consequence, pick a good decision.

Recently, I have been thinking about transferring colleges. I don't like this idea, but I keep telling myself it will be better for my future because there will will be a better program just waiting for me. I weigh out the pros and cons of each choice in my head all the time. The unknown in the future scares me. I think change is a good thing yet I don't like embracing change once I am in my comfort zone. Can't I just be in my comfort zone forever? I guess you will never learn if you never leave your comfort zone.You will always be stuck in a static environment.

So this is my formula for making important decisions.

1. Study
2. Pray
3. Listen and Write Down Impressions
4. Go and DO!

Right now I trying to master my own formula. And remember faith over fear. Don't let fear make your decision for you.

Comments

  1. AutumnJuly 19, 2011 at 4:52 PM

    Hey. I'm just letting you know that it's almost impossible to transfer from there.... I have been working for 2 months trying to transfer to Denver, and they said it would work, but now it won't. I wish you luck, but no one can ever transfer.

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