Uncertainty with Decisions
I feel like as Young Single Adults, we deal with uncertainty all the time. What classes should I take next semester? You sign up for them yet the schedule will most likely change. What are my plans for tonight? I feel like most plans are spontaneous.Your life is in this transition period where you feel uncertainty.
Sometimes it can be fun to live with uncertainty because the options and door are open before you. You have so much choice and your decision matter because they influence who you will become. Yet, this is scary when looking straight ahead. I have touched on this topic a lot in my blog, but I feel like this is the problem that most people face in my age group. We all know that your choices know will affect our whole life including eternities.
How do we deal with uncertainty? This is my most recent answer that may not help any of you but I think it helps me. We recognize that we don't know the answers and that answers will come over time. We know that our life will be great and have faith. It is okay to not know. I have always known what I have wanted to do with my life. I recognize that my life plan is good but it may not work out like I want it to. There probably will be changes to my personal life plan. Taking little steps is all that we can do for now. So simply waking up and fulfilling our daily duties and then figuring out the big stuff as the time comes is the best solution.
I know that we can get lost in our life because we are full of uncertainty. But seriously when are we ever fully certain? It will only get worse. We will have to answer parenting questions, financial questions, career questions, marriage issues and church questions the older we become. I feel like a lot of people assume that life will be automatically easier when we are older. That is not true. I feel like there are challenges with every age group.
So, in a not so nice way my solution is deal with it. Recognize that there may be uncertainty with every age group and decision. Keep moving forward and keep staying positive. Life is about enduring to the end. And another thing, we can still enjoy our life while enduring to the end. Just because we are going through something hard, dosen't mean we can't experience moments of happiness along the way right? So, remember to turn that frown upside down and learn to smile while enduring through hard moments.
Sometimes it can be fun to live with uncertainty because the options and door are open before you. You have so much choice and your decision matter because they influence who you will become. Yet, this is scary when looking straight ahead. I have touched on this topic a lot in my blog, but I feel like this is the problem that most people face in my age group. We all know that your choices know will affect our whole life including eternities.
How do we deal with uncertainty? This is my most recent answer that may not help any of you but I think it helps me. We recognize that we don't know the answers and that answers will come over time. We know that our life will be great and have faith. It is okay to not know. I have always known what I have wanted to do with my life. I recognize that my life plan is good but it may not work out like I want it to. There probably will be changes to my personal life plan. Taking little steps is all that we can do for now. So simply waking up and fulfilling our daily duties and then figuring out the big stuff as the time comes is the best solution.
I know that we can get lost in our life because we are full of uncertainty. But seriously when are we ever fully certain? It will only get worse. We will have to answer parenting questions, financial questions, career questions, marriage issues and church questions the older we become. I feel like a lot of people assume that life will be automatically easier when we are older. That is not true. I feel like there are challenges with every age group.
So, in a not so nice way my solution is deal with it. Recognize that there may be uncertainty with every age group and decision. Keep moving forward and keep staying positive. Life is about enduring to the end. And another thing, we can still enjoy our life while enduring to the end. Just because we are going through something hard, dosen't mean we can't experience moments of happiness along the way right? So, remember to turn that frown upside down and learn to smile while enduring through hard moments.
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